I love this quote that comes from my Zen Buddhism book: "It is hard to find anyone who will say that what is right is right and what is wrong is wrong, who is balanced, true and upright." And I also like this quote "In general, when criticizing and talking about others, you should seek to find where the fauly are faultless-how can you find the faultless faulty? If you do not look into peoples hearts, and just doubt their actions, what help is that?"